Introducing new pets to your family

Introducing new pets to your family

Whether you’re bringing home a new hamster, or acquainting a kitten with your kids, there are plenty of helpful tips and tricks to make these meetings run smoothly. Initial intros take some prep, but be patient and they’re sure to thank you with cuddles later.

Is there a ‘right time’ to introduce a new pet?

There are no hard and fast rules. Instead, take cues from your pet, so they set the pace. Just know that most pets are naturally territorial and need some space to settle in. So, it’s not unusual for introductions to take a couple of weeks. 

Before introducing your new pet, bring the scent of your family home to them in the form of a blanket or a piece of clothing, so they get used to that smell. It can help ease the transition when they arrive at your door.  

Remember, a slow steady approach gives everyone a chance to settle, so you’re less likely to run into setbacks. Patience is key here - pushing things too fast will only create long-term tension that’s even harder to undo.  

How do I prepare my pet before introducing them to my family?

Find a time of day that’s most calm and quiet for everyone. Arrange the meeting place (a safe room in your home where they feel comfortable and not trapped). If you have a dog, it’s often best to keep them on a lead. With cats, make sure they can perch high to observe from a safe distance. If it’s a small pet, introduce them through the cage or hutch first, so they get used to your family scent. Reward your pets for staying settled - this lets them build positive associations with your family. 

How should I set up my home so everyone feels safe?

To give your new pet top tier comfort, make easy-to-access ‘safe zones’. For cats that means cat trees, shelves, activity climbers, soft bedding, and cosy hideaways. 

For dogs, they’ll need a cosy crate or bed for alone time. Crates are handy to help your dog feel calm and safe, or if you need to leave the room, and would prefer them to be kept in a secure space. Just make sure you pop a water bowl in there too.  

Small animals like hamsters, guinea pigs, and rabbits need space for exercise, but in a secure environment. This might mean a cage, a hutch, or a run in the garden. 
Make sure to provide tunnels and dens, so they can explore and hide. Just remember, you should always be around to supervise.  

How do I introduce my children to our new pet safely?

You should supervise every interaction. Children can be unpredictable, so make sure you guide them to use quiet voices and gentle hands. They should always handle small pets sitting down on the floor. Early, positive experiences around kids help pets grow confidently - but you should always be around to guide them, so everyone stays safe and happy. 

Can pheromone diffusers help with stress?

Yes, many pet parents love pheromone diffusers because they help settle their pets, especially for first family meetings. If you prefer a more natural approach, there are valerian-based options too, plus you can get calming-aids in the form of treats, sprays and more - simply choose the ones best suited to your lifestyle.  

What is ‘barrier training’ and how do I do it right?

Barrier training means letting animals see, hear, and smell your family safely through a physical barrier like a baby gate.  

You could begin introducing them with closed doors, then progress to supervised ‘hellos’ through a baby gate or something similar. 

If you’re introducing a dog, it’s best to keep them on a lead and reward them for calm behaviourthey’ll soon learn that behaving casually around your family is a good thing.  

When your pet seems relaxed through the barrier, it’s time for the moment of truth. Try short, fully supervised sessions in the same room with your family, still giving your pet plenty of space. Gradually, you’ll help your pet build positive feelings for their new family. 

Anything else I need to know?

Introducing a new pet to your family is incredibly exciting, but it’s also a steep learning curve. Just know we’re here to help you every step of the way. If you need advice, come instore and chat to our team about your new pet’s needs. You can also make use of Vets4Pets, and check out grooming offers when you visit. And if you haven’t already, join Pets Club to get expert advice and discounts throughout your pet’s journey. 

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